RHOBH Star Doesn’t Think She’ll Get Married Again Following Split

“Real Housewives of Beverly Hills” star Erika Jayne is opening up about her ideal man four years after her separation from her estranged husband, former attorney Tom Girardi.

During a February 2025 episode of the “RHOBH After Show,” Jayne said that she would like to date someone “Tall, dark, handsome, wealthy, younger, [and] blond.” She also said she values intelligence in a romantic partner. In addition, she said that she does not need to be spoiled by the individual she dates.

“I really enjoy, at this time in my life, making my own money and taking care of myself. If someone would love to shower me with beautiful things, of course. But being beholden to a man ever again, I don’t know about that,” said Jayne.

Jayne also clarified that she is not interested in getting married again. She noted that she has not finalized her divorce from Girardi.

“I’ve already had children. I’ve already been married twice. I’m still married. Because I am. I don’t think that I’ll ever be married again. And I’m okay with that,” said Jayne in the interview.

She also said that she “would love to have a companion.”

“I would love to have a great boyfriend. I really would. I would love to have someone to go do things with, but I don’t want to saddle someone with my [expletive] problems that I’m dragging in from my previous relationship. I don’t think that’s fair. Come to me and let’s, like, go have a great time together. The world is a great big beautiful place,” said Jayne.

Erika Jayne Said She Is Content Being Single

While speaking to Us Weekly in January 2025, Jayne shared that she is content being single. She said, however, that she is open to dating.

“I’m happy to be on my own, but I’m happy to share this version of myself with someone. I don’t think I’ll get married again. And that’s okay. I’ve been married all of my adult life. It would be nice to share this time of my life with someone. But it’s going to have to be a really strong someone. Because it’s a lot,” said Jayne to the publication.

Erika Jayne Said She Has Made Herself Be More Social

During a January 2025 interview on “The John Hill Show,” Jayne said that she wanted to start dating again.

“I’m single so I need to get some man. You know or mens,” said Jayne during the interview.

Jayne said that she decided to be more social to increase her chances of finding a romantic partner.

“One of things I did last year was to force myself to be more social. And I will do that again this year as well,” said Jayne.