After 35 Years, The Message of ‘Pretty Woman’ Still Hits Home

Very few films in the rom-com genre have aged as well as “Pretty Woman.” The 1990 classic starring Julia Roberts and Richard Gere isn’t just about an unexpected love story; it’s about self-worth, transformation, and the power of choice. And let’s be honest: some aspects of the movie are very much a product of their time. But its core message? Still as relevant as ever. 

People even chose to honor the 35th anniversary by showcasing the amazing outfits throughout the movie, proving how timeless this film is. With its charm, humor, and heart, “Pretty Woman” continues to resonate, proving that some stories never go out of style.

More Than a Fairytale

At first glance, “Pretty Woman” looks like an updated version of a Cinderella story, but at its depths, it’s about a woman realizing her own value. Vivian Ward doesn’t just get a makeover and fall for a rich guy; she stands up for herself, sets boundaries, and refuses to settle. Even when she’s offered the “perfect” setup, she chooses to walk away, showing that her happiness isn’t tied to a man’s money or status.

That’s what makes the movie stand out. Vivian starts off believing her options are limited, but by the end, she demands more… not just in love, but in life. And that message still lands today. Self-respect, ambition, and refusing to accept less than you deserve? Those aren’t just movie themes; they’re real-life necessities. Love should be a partnership, not a rescue mission, and “Pretty Woman” gets that right.

Respect Never Goes Out of Style

One of the film’s most iconic moments isn’t even about the romance… it happens in the department store scene. Vivian gets dismissed by the snooty boutique workers, only to come back later with confidence (and a shopping spree) to deliver the legendary “Big mistake. Huge.” line. This is so much more than just a satisfying clap-back. It is a reminder that respect shouldn’t be based on appearances or assumptions.

And that theme carries throughout the movie. Edward, despite his wealth and power, treats Vivian with kindness, never looking down on her or making her feel less than human. And in the same vein, Vivian challenges him to see life differently, pushing him to be more than just a richy-rich businessman. Their relationship works not because he “saves” her but because they push each other to grow.

A Classic That Still Shines

And three decades later, “Pretty Woman” still holds up, not just because it’s charming but because its message still matters. Self-worth, kindness, and knowing your own value will always be in style. The world may have changed since its release, but at the end of the day, “Pretty Woman” is more than just a love story… it’s a reminder to know your worth, demand respect, and never let anyone tell you that you’re anything less than extraordinary.