When it comes to love, Mariah Carey’s journey has been just as iconic as her voice, from whirlwind romances to storybook weddings — and even a few heartbreaks. Mariah has always believed in loving big, living boldly, and turning it all into unforgettable music.
Over the years, Mariah has dated some notable names, including athletes and fellow artists, with a few relationships that have left a lasting mark on her heart and her fans. Let’s take a look back at her most memorable relationships.
Mariah’s Early Love and First Marriage—Tommy Mottola
Mariah met Sony Music executive Tommy Mottola when she was just 23. They married in 1993 when Tommy was 43, but the marriage ended in 1998.
Mariah later opened up about the tough times in her memoir, describing the relationship as “walking on eggshells” because of his “dense and oppressive” presence.
Romance with Derek Jeter and Luis Miguel
While still married to Tommy, Mariah briefly dated baseball star Derek Jeter from 1997 to 1998. She described their time together as “sensual” and “intoxicating,” calling it a “short and sweet dream” that inspired some of her biggest hits like “The Roof” and “My All.”
After that, she moved on to singer Luis Miguel, whom she called an “authentic, over-the-top Latin lover” in her book.
Their relationship lasted from 1998 to 2001 but ended due to cultural differences and pressures.
Model Love and Second Marriage to Nick Cannon
In 2005, Mariah briefly dated model Christian Monzon, whom she met on the set of her music video. Then came Nick Cannon, her second husband. They started dating in 2008, got married, and welcomed their twins, Moroccan and Monroe, in 2011.
Though they separated in 2014 and divorced in 2016, they’ve kept a respectful co-parenting relationship, with Cannon calling her the “love of [his] life.”
High-Profile Engagement and Long-Term Romance
Mariah was engaged to billionaire James Packer in 2016, but they split within the year.
Then came Bryan Tanaka, her longtime backup dancer turned boyfriend.
Their seven-year relationship ended in December 2023.
Bryan confirmed their amicable split on social media.
New Beginnings: Dating Anderson.Paak
As of March 2025, Mariah Carey is happily taken — and her new partner is none other than musician Anderson.Paak.
The two met while working together and have been quietly dating for a few months now. As per a report in US Weekly, insiders say Anderson is smitten, and Mariah loves his sweet nature and musical talent.
Mariah Carey is set to receive one of the night’s biggest honors at the 2025 BET Awards — the Ultimate Icon Award — alongside Jamie Foxx, Kirk Franklin, and Snoop Dogg. The award celebrates their decades of groundbreaking work in music, entertainment, and community service.
Mariah will also be hitting the stage for a special performance, along with Franklin and Snoop. Hosted by Kevin Hart, this year’s show — dubbed “Culture’s Biggest Night” — airs live on Monday, June 9 at 8 p.m. ET/PT on BET.
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Former ‘American Idol’ Judge Mariah Carey’s Romance History